How to Choose the Right Music for Each Part of Your Wedding

Your wedding day should feel like a perfectly curated soundtrack from start to finish. Every song you choose will take you back to that exact moment for years to come. That is why it is so important to think through the music you want played all day, not just during the reception.

Start with the music you want while you are getting ready with your wedding party. This is the time to set the tone for the day with YOUR favorite music. Something that makes you feel relaxed, excited, and totally in the moment.

As your guests start arriving, you will need prelude music in the ceremony space. Most people will tell you to start this 30 minutes before the ceremony. I say start it 45 minutes to an hour before because guests always show up early. This music should be soft, easy listening. Think instrumental love songs that fill the space without taking over. The ceremony officially begins. Then comes the processional. You may have one song for family, another for the wedding party, and a special one for your walk down the aisle. If you have unity rituals like a candle lighting or sand ceremony, choose something instrumental since the officiant will be speaking. Finally, you will need a recessional song to exit to. This one should be upbeat and joyful.

Next is cocktail hour while you take photos. Pick music that sets the vibe for your guests but that you are not worried about hearing yourself. I have a playlist with over seven hours of great cocktail and dinner music right here: Spotify Playlist

Dinner music is different because you will actually hear it. This is a good time for some of your favorites that may not work later for dancing. You might also have background songs for your cake cutting and for special dances with parents or grandparents.

Once we move into open dancing, the playlist should be all about what will get your people moving. I ask my couples for at least 25 song suggestions that they know will keep the dance floor full. Nothing gets guests dancing more than seeing the bride and groom out there too. Decide if you will allow requests and whether you want to go straight into high energy or start with some classics for the older crowd.

The night usually ends with a last guest dance and a private last dance. It is a lot of music to plan, but I am here to help make sure every moment sounds exactly how you imagined it. Booking starts with a discovery call so I can learn your music taste, your vision, and where I can help bring it all together.